tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6675825798575605751.post941298970046040943..comments2024-02-24T03:01:28.895-06:00Comments on Higher Perspective: 15 Things You Should Give Up To Be HappyAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00587736283348610778noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6675825798575605751.post-36634687175115545402013-09-23T21:36:03.881-05:002013-09-23T21:36:03.881-05:00in a way that is true, unknown, but how you handle...in a way that is true, unknown, but how you handle situations that come your way can either result in a satisfying outcome or a destructive one. take me for example, i have a disease that is destroying every nerve in my body. i have lost the feeling in my legs and hands, my stomach and bowel no longer work effectively........soon i will be incontinent and in a wheelchair. the long list of things i cannot do is too much to bore you with here. Am i scared? Absolutely! a long time ago i decided it was up to me how i handled this and i could either find activities that would challenge me and 'keep me going forward' or i could find the closest couch, turn on the tv and stay there for the rest of my life. i chose the former. my point is that everything is a matter of mindset, everything is a choice. we may not like the challenge, especially when we have no control over what it is,but we do have a choice at how we handle that challenge. see the beauty in the world, appreciate everyone in it because they are all here for a reason and we can learn something worthwhile from each and every one of them. i am not perfect, i struggle with the unknown, i cry and get frustrated, i swear like a sailor and stamp my feet when things dont go my own way,but that is a part of being human. we are all a work in progress and we make mistakes but just pick yourself up dust yourself off and have a little giggle at yourself.<br />All i have written here is just my own personal experience and opinion, maybe it resonates a little bit with you too. love to you all xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6675825798575605751.post-76518392495308975062013-07-06T02:32:33.216-05:002013-07-06T02:32:33.216-05:00So basically just say nothing. .ever,and be a robo...So basically just say nothing. .ever,and be a robot? Been there, still here..I do all those things without someone saying I "should" ..<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03918025525496729118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6675825798575605751.post-88590157306729738882013-06-11T22:45:38.708-05:002013-06-11T22:45:38.708-05:00Most of these are good advice but one or two are t...Most of these are good advice but one or two are trite and cliched and take little account of the reality that moast people face.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13234592194203648308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6675825798575605751.post-82175631718840163992013-06-08T06:36:35.226-05:002013-06-08T06:36:35.226-05:00I've worked and conquered all but one of the 1...I've worked and conquered all but one of the 15 suggestions, the defeating self-talk. My mind is continuously telling me I'm doing it wrong, not good enough, it is my own fault, it's my job to fix the world, they're are talking about you, I'm pathetic, etc... The problem is I resist these thoughts but sometimes can't stop them for days on end. While working on re-programming my inner voice and it's demonic twin, I've concluded that it is really me being pissed off at myself for not taking opportunities' I've been longing for my whole life. Who am I living for anyway??? When I decide to not do something I know I would enjoy doing, it comes down to who I am doing it for. Me or them... So often I put others before myself that I by pass what I want. Living a life that compliments your dreams and desires is for you as an individual to pursue. Chasing someone else's dreams will never satisfy your own, unless it is a collaborative effort. <br />"The only thing we have to fear, is fear itself."<br />One of the best statements ever spoke in the last century. It only has one meaning and can only be interpreted in one way. If your afraid of it, you'll draw it towards you. Stop letting it control your actions, and you will be liberated from what frightens you.<br />Love and Hopechamako76noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6675825798575605751.post-27676459795275953022013-05-17T23:16:28.778-05:002013-05-17T23:16:28.778-05:00your thinking labels things right or wrong - in th...your thinking labels things right or wrong - in themselves they are only energy expressed. perception is the key as is allowance, change IS good it is the only constant in this world - to think otherwise leaves you hanging and trying to be static in a dynamic environment - change is change only nothing more unless you perceive it so Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6675825798575605751.post-12158331352961120382013-05-17T23:12:52.448-05:002013-05-17T23:12:52.448-05:00and where is the wrong in that? we are all partic...and where is the wrong in that? we are all particles of the one. to be reunited = bliss :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6675825798575605751.post-10342247155501865532013-05-10T13:50:40.402-05:002013-05-10T13:50:40.402-05:009 and 10 are Bogus - Asserting that "Change i...9 and 10 are Bogus - Asserting that "Change is Good" is an opinion, and also false - change is not always good.<br /><br />Asserting "Stop labeling those things, people or events that you don’t understand as being weird or different and try opening your mind, little by little. Minds only work when open." is also false - assuming that being open to really bad ideas will make your life better is stupid. Some ideas are just that bad. People who are labeled as "neo-nazis" are labeled as such because they have very bad ideas, and it is prudent to label them as such.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6675825798575605751.post-61768443592754238362013-05-09T09:38:08.353-05:002013-05-09T09:38:08.353-05:00I couldn't agree more. I too struggle with thi...I couldn't agree more. I too struggle with this thought... Is identity not just a product of all our flaws??? If we were perfectly enlightened to our fullest potential would we not be identical? <br /><br />It seems as though the only thing that makes us different is our ego... Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06910362160190432346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6675825798575605751.post-83388350079230084932013-05-07T01:30:55.221-05:002013-05-07T01:30:55.221-05:00what works for one person doesnt necessary work fo...what works for one person doesnt necessary work for every body....dont so do what works for you and ignore what everybody syas....at the end what doesnt kill you is good for you.....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6675825798575605751.post-89535430035797738002013-05-05T14:05:32.137-05:002013-05-05T14:05:32.137-05:00It is true to say that most 'personality trait...It is true to say that most 'personality traits' that constitute identity are just manifestations of ego, the illusion of self. It is also true to say that identity itself is an illusion.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09172497210603171151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6675825798575605751.post-58946896294723853192013-05-03T19:26:35.760-05:002013-05-03T19:26:35.760-05:00basically, be nobody, have no identity. how many o...basically, be nobody, have no identity. how many of you will agree that?Andreinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6675825798575605751.post-9184224921308841922013-05-03T07:25:28.459-05:002013-05-03T07:25:28.459-05:00All these 15 Things can be resumed in: FEAR!
So, p...All these 15 Things can be resumed in: FEAR!<br />So, please let me give you my BIGGEST and RADICAL "anti-fear" suggestion:<br /><br />Rom 8, 31-39<br /><br />31 What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? 32 He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? 33 Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies. 34 Who then is the one who condemns? No one. Christ Jesus who died—more than that, who was raised to life—is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us. 35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? 36 As it is written:<br /><br />“For your sake we face death all day long;<br /> we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.”[j]<br />37 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38 For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons,[k] neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.<br /><br />Don't be affraid! Open your heart to the Spirit that resurrected Jesus Christ from the deads! ... and BE HAPPY! :)Madalenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17148661798270604492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6675825798575605751.post-48011244348106552212013-05-03T07:08:50.352-05:002013-05-03T07:08:50.352-05:0016. Give up your everyday bad habits, drugs, alcoh...16. Give up your everyday bad habits, drugs, alcohol,junk food intake etc.., that poison that distracts your mind from beautiful things that exist in our world and makes you dependable on things you really don't need, wasting your precious time.Anthonyhttp://www.creativityflow.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6675825798575605751.post-79167746246788952062013-05-03T05:32:20.705-05:002013-05-03T05:32:20.705-05:00but its difficult to be simple you..
but its difficult to be simple you..<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05009839450609742009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6675825798575605751.post-81099934232760565232013-05-03T02:19:34.211-05:002013-05-03T02:19:34.211-05:00So true TatjanaSo true TatjanaJan Witvoethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18384214011698653748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6675825798575605751.post-64545510029027588432013-05-02T07:37:50.743-05:002013-05-02T07:37:50.743-05:00life is gift most people never open life is gift most people never open Tatjana Milosevichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12231357930015610961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6675825798575605751.post-55451140982878746612013-05-02T03:04:25.021-05:002013-05-02T03:04:25.021-05:00Life is meant to be simpleLife is meant to be simpleAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12951174742732455799noreply@blogger.com